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The Sex Facilitator® is an online interactive tool that promotes and
facilitates effective couple's communication with the specific goal of
enhancing couples' sexual relationships.
The system consists of more than 10 communication venues. Each venue functions
much like a two-way email program that enables the sending and receiving of
confidential electronic correspondence between you and your spouse/partner. If
you have been sponsored into your Relationship 911/Breakup 911 membership by
your therapist, the system also enables you to send copies of your
correspondence to your therapist for monitoring purposes, if you wish to do so.
Each of the communication venues within the Sex Facilitator® teaches you to
keep your communications within a prescribed structure that significantly
reduces blame, criticism, defensiveness, conflict, resentment, and withdrawal,
while fostering sexual connection and intimacy, as well as respect for each
Use of the Sex Facilitator® is recommended for those couples whose sex lives
are being negatively impacted by faulty communication, frequent disagreements
and arguments, disconnect and withdrawal, child rearing demands, and inhibited
sexual desire, as well as emotional fusion.
If used consistently, and in conjunction with the Couple's Communicator®,
the Sex Facilitator® will teach you a new method for communication that you
will not only be able to apply in your everyday lives, but that will
permanently strengthen and enhance your relationship in general, and your
sexual relationship in particular.
To learn more about the theoretical orientation of the Sex Facilitator®,