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Smokin'
By: LuckyStreak
Male, 
Age: 48, 
Memphis
Tennessee
8/30/2008 4:33:23 AM
Yeah...smokin'...and not cigarettes either.  Ya know, my lady is great, she's just what I really always wanted except for one thing.  She's getting to the point where every time I see her she's high, and it's really starting to piss me off.  I'll go over to hang with her at her place or whatever, and it's not like I can't tell.  And I'm not really a straight arrow myself, I mean, I've imbibed now and then, but really, ya can't go through life like that.  Any time we go to do anything together, it's like that has to come first.  Would you call that dysfunctional?

Reply Posted By: EndGame - Male, Age: 36, Kansas CityMissouri

Date Posted:
9/1/2008 4:27:08 AM


EndGame
Yeah I'd call that dysfunctional.  It's hard to be around people who use all the time.  I mean,  ya know...a little recreational stuff every once in a while seems okay by me, but if I had to deal with it on a daily basis, it would really drag me down.

Reply Posted By: Seeker - Female, Age: 50, Fort CollinsColorado

Date Posted:
9/2/2008 3:39:54 PM


Seeker
That would really be tough to deal with.  My husband sometimes drinks too much and it gets annoying, so I can see where you're coming from.  To have to deal with it all of the time would get old.

Reply Posted By: Ellis - Male, Age: 48, TrentonNew Jersey

Date Posted:
9/2/2008 3:48:49 PM


Ellis
She's going to have to take some time to get healthy.  That's just not good for either of you.

Reply Posted By: Tango - Female, Age: 47, MontaukNew York

Date Posted:
10/5/2008 10:18:20 AM


Tango

You should talk to her about it, and see if there are any underlying issues that are making her feel like she has to get high all the time! This is the first thing that you can do to help.

 

 

 

 
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