Because counselors are human beings, we all bring different things to the counseling situation. ANY marriage counselor should be focused on healing the couple. If both people in the marriage want to work things out, then any marriage can be saved.
That being said, many people go to marriage counseling because they already know they want out. Marriage counseling often helps them communicate better while they are going through the divorce process. This is especially helpful when children are involved, and the priority is learning to co-parent without bringing added stress into the children''s lives.
Sometimes it takes a little shopping around to find the right marriage counselor. But if you and your husband want to get your marriage back on-track, then the right therapist can help you do that. I wish you the best!